REMEMBERING CHILDHOOD DAYS

 by Danna Shirley

I saw a magazine titled “Good*Old*Days” and it reminded me of my own good-old-days childhood. I thought I would rack my 76-year-old brain to recall some of those precious memories of:

·          Drawing a hop scotch with chalk in the driveway and playing with my “taw” made up of chains hooked together.

·       Playing tether ball in the backyard where Dad had poured cement into a tire to hold the pole up.

·       Playing jacks on the kitchen floor and trying to go “around the world” before catching the ball. I had them in a leather pouch I bought on one of our many family trips from CA to AR and OK, stopping at an Indian Trading Post on Route 66. No interstates in the 50s and 60s. I still have that pouch but the ball doesn’t bounce anymore. 😊

·       Lying out on the hot pavement in the summertime looking at the stars and trying to figure out shapes and animals.

·       Making mudpies in the backyard.

·       Running through the sprinkler on hot days.

·       Jumping rope.

·       Riding my bike.

·       Sliding down the grassy hill on a piece of cardboard at the top of my street.

·       Dolls: paper dolls, drawing my own fashionable outfits, coloring them, cutting them out.

·       Dolls: playing house, dressing up my dolls; Barbie came along much later for my own daughter

·       Paint-by-number pictures.

·       Learning to embroider. My first efforts didn’t turn out so well.

·       Playing “Go Fish” and “War” and as I got older, “Canasta” with my sisters.

·       My favorite toy was a monkey

·       Playing school down in the basement where my dad had lined one wall of the garage with blackboards.

·       Watching cartoons: Bugs Bunny, Popeye, Road Runner, etc.

·       Westerns: my favorite was Roy Rogers, Dale Evans, and the Sons of the Pioneers

·       The early sitcoms: Dobie Gillis, Ozzie & Harriet, Gilligan’s Island, Hazel (I wished we had a Hazel in our lives)

·       We had milk delivered to our house and he had a key to get in and put it right in the refrigerator.

·       Helping my dad do chores around the house. I was his little helper.

·       We got new dresses, hats, gloves, purse, and frilly socks to wear to church every Easter.

·       Making chocolate chip cookies and eating more of the dough that the cookies.

·       Cheerios is still my favorite cereal.

·       Vacations: my mom was a school teacher so she always incorporated educational trips to various places: Grand Canyon, Painted Desert, Carlsbad Caverns, Meteor Crater, Niagara Falls, Smithsonian, Independence Hall, Plymouth Rock, the Liberty Bell, and many more over my years of living at home.

I guess I did a good job of racking my brain. What are your childhood memories? Why don’t you plan a trip or two for your family to enjoy America right in your own backyard? 

Why Antisemitism?

By Danna Shirley ~ January 2024

 The internet defines Antisemitism as: 

"Hostility toward or discrimination against Jews as a religious or racial group."

I was born after WWII. We said the Pledge of Allegiance every morning in school. Although there were no Jewish kids in class (that I knew of), I never heard of anyone being hostile or discriminating against Jews in my little world of Pinole, California. 

I was raised a Methodist but didn't become a Christian until I was 32 years old in Montgomery, Alabama. As a Christian, I learned I was engrafted into the vine of God's chosen people...the Jews.

"This mystery is that through the Gospel the Gentiles are heirs together with Israel, members together of one body, and sharers together in the promise in Christ Jesus." (Eph 3:6 NIV)

So why antisemitism? I don't understand why anyone can hate a group of people and not know any individuals in that group. I've heard some say it was the Jews who killed Jesus and therefore, they are to blame for killing our Lord. Don't they understand that WE ALL are to blame for killing our Lord . . . because WE ALL have sinned and put Him on the cross. 

I've also heard it said that the Jews denied Jesus as Messiah but WE ALL were born into denial of Jesus before accepting Him as our Lord and Savior. We are all on level ground at the foot of the cross. No one can claim any higher calling or lower plane because Jesus died for us all.

So why antisemitism? Why hate and discriminate against any group of people? After seeing my results from ancestry.com, I believe WE ALL have a little bit of everything in our blood line. I am . . .

Great Britain 68% (England, Wales, Northwestern Europe)

Ireland, Scotland 11%

Sweden 9%

Native American 5% (I know I’m Choctaw as my grandmother was an original enrollee in the Choctaw Nation of Oklahoma)

Eastern Europe 2% (Russia, Czech Republic, Poland~Warsaw, my great-grandmother came from Poland and married a mix of Choctaw Indian and unknown, Hungary, Romania, Moldova, Croatia, Lithuania, Latvia, Estonia, Slovenia, Slovakia, Bulgaria, Ukraine, Belarus, Serbia, Montenegro, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Albania, Kosovo, and Macedonia) 

Nigeria 2%

Indigenous Americas 1% (Mexico)

Indigenous Americas 1% (Yucatan Peninsula)

Finland 1%

SO WHY ANTISEMITISM???

The Rapture

Description of the Rapture in Scripture related in Dr David Jeremiah's book, The Great Disappearance, chapter 19 ~ 

SEVEN YEARS OF SEVERITY

* The day of their calamity (Deut 32:35)

* The day of Lord's anger (Zeph 2:2)

* The wrath to come (1 Thess 1:10)

* The hour of trial (Rev 3:10)

* The hour of His judgment (Rev 14:7)

* A time of trouble (Dan 12:1) 

* The day of wrath, trouble and distress, devastation and desolation, darkness and gloominess, clouds and thick darkness, trumpet and alarm (Zeph 1:15-16)

* Terror and horror w/o precedent (Mt 24:21-22)

* Wars will ravage the world; peace will end and rampant slaughter will bloody the earth; hail and fire will burn up the planet's grass and destroy a third of all trees; intense famine; rivers and seas will be polluted; rivers will dry up; the sun will scorch the earth; war, starvation, beastly predators; earthquakes, thunder and lightening; mountains will crash into the seas; tidal waves; meteor showers; ash and smoke will hide the sun and moon; demonic insects will inflict painful stings; rampant, epidemic plagues (Rev 6:2-17; 8:8-13; 9:1-20; 16:1-21)

* Antichrist will rise to power and demand total allegiance; satanical inspired programs; people will be barred from buying and selling food or other products; entire civilized world will be choked in his tyrannical grasp (Rev 13:1-18)

* Tribulation will be hell on earth; no escape and no relief!

The Rapture and Children

 In considering children during the Rapture and their age of accountability, Dr. David Jeremiah addresses this question in his book, The Great Disappearance, chapter 15.

God knows and loves the unborn baby even in the womb (Psalm 139:13-17)

What about children who may have been miscarried, aborted, or died in infancy?  

"Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; 

for of such is the Kingdom of heaven." (Mt 19:13-14) 

"Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven 

that one of these little ones should perish." (Mt 18:14)

A child is a person from the moment of conception. This truth allows that all preborn babies who perish go straight into the blessed arms of Jesus. For mothers who grieve over their aborted babies, God knows how to pour His healing and forgiveness into your life through the merits of Christ. Abortion is not the unpardonable sin. 

Jesus loves you and He loves every child from conception. In fact, He loves us from before time began. Your child may not be with you here on this earth but one day you will be reunited with your baby in heaven. Take comfort with this knowledge that Christ will keep you as you anticipate your eternal reunion.

ONENESS

 by Danna Shirley ~ 1990     (All scripture references are the NKJV)

What does it mean to be in ONENESS, to be in unity and harmony with yourself and with others? God promises peace to His children, peace verses strife and discord. I often wondered why God’s peace eluded me most of the time, especially when His Word promised it everywhere I looked.

 You will keep him in perfect PEACE . . . (Isaiah 26:3)

Then your PEACE would have been like a river . . . (Isaiah 48:18b)

 Let us pursue the things which make for PEACE . . .  (Romans 14:19)

And the PEACE of God . . . will guard your hearts and minds . . . (Philippians 4:7-9)

And let the PEACE of God rule in your hearts . . . (Colossians 3:15-17)

Of course, I was only focusing on the part of Scripture that I wanted to claim. If you will examine each of the above Scriptures in their entirety, you will find that there is also a condition clause to enter into this PEACE. It is so with every promise in God’s Word if you will search it out. Take any subject, study all the Scripture references on that topic and you will find that you cannot claim God’s promises without fulfilling His condition to that promise.

So, where was this PEACE, this ONENESS, this unity and harmony that I wanted to have within myself, with my family, with my friends and neighbors, with my brethren? There was a Scripture that would always come to my mind whenever anything was going well . . .

[Christ] —from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love. (Ephesians 4:16)

 It seemed to apply in every good situation, but never in bad situations. I finally looked up the ONE passage (Ephesians 4:1-6) . . .

Walk in Unity ~ I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is ONE body and ONE Spirit, just as you were called in ONE hope of your calling; ONE Lord, ONE faith, ONE baptism; ONE God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all.

As a child of God, I committed to walk worthy of this calling. It has taken me years of growth, peaks and valleys, to realize exactly what this meant. Sometimes I grew fast, sometimes not at all, and other times I lost ground; I might feel like a failure, completely unworthy of this calling, and other times I was perfectly at peace in His will.

I began to wonder, “Is there ever a time when a I can get it right and keep it right, all the time?” Being in ONENESS . . . being in unity and harmony within myself, with my fellow man, with the Lord? How does it happen?

The Word has already told us . . . 

with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. (vs 2-3)

Sounds so simple, doesn’t it?

          I can be humble!

          I can be gentle with others . . . if they’ll just do right!

          I can be patient with others . . . if they’ll just do right!

          I can love my fellow man . . .  if they’ll just do right!

          I can be in unity with everyone . . . if they’ll JUST DO RIGHT!!!

So, humility, gentleness, patience, love, and unity depend on how others act first?   NO!

If I am out of harmony with myself and with the Lord, then I am out of harmony with others.

So, do I need to work on myself first?     YES!     HOW?

There is ONE body and ONE Spirit, just as you were called in ONE hope of your calling; ONE Lord, ONE faith, ONE baptism; ONE God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all. (vs 4-6)

So, why was I not able to achieve this harmony? I wanted to. I tried very hard. That was the problem. I was trying very hard to do it within myself, by myself, without submitting to the Father, Son, or Holy Spirit . . . over me, through me, or in me!

As failure after failure, with family, friends, and brethren increased, I realized I could not achieve this harmony under my own steam, or at least not do a very good job of it. I began to turn more areas of my life over to God, one at a time, until I really began to feel that peace, that ONENESS, that harmony which enabled me to live a life worthy of His calling.

In other words—I became fitly joined together with Jesus and He opened my eyes to the harmony I desired, the gentleness I desired, the patience I desired, the love I desired. I finally gave up my control and allowed Him to work over me, through me, and in me.

As I became fitly joined together with Jesus, it became easier to be fitly joined together with others in every situation I encountered . . . at school, baseball league, Bible study, prayer group, inside the church with believers, outside the church with unbelievers. If I let Jesus work over me, through me, and in me with anyone in any situation, then we all became closer to being fitly joined together in love to accomplish our purpose. 

Walking with Jesus can be the longest, straightest, narrowest path we’ll ever walk but the most satisfying, fulfilling, and rewarding experience we’ll ever encounter! However, it must be a solid walk, never wavering, crossing every hurdle thrown on your path, overcoming unforgiveness, anger, judgment, doubt and unbelief, worry and fear, gossip, valley experiences, etc.    

HOW? By being fitly joined together with Jesus, facing every day with Him, resting in His timing, allowing Him to mold and shape us, giving Him thanks for every situation . . .

 . . . that we should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting, but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ— from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love. (vs 14-16)

Now, won’t you be fitly joined together with Jesus?

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(Note: When I wrote this in 1990, I was struggling to find that peace. As I have reread it now, I realize I did find that peace and I’ve lived in it for many, many years; even when I lost my husband to pneumonia in 2003. The decision to surrender into God’s hands brought that peace I had been seeking. Oh, I still have those peaks and valleys to navigate, as we all do, but looking back on my life now, I see God’s hand buoying me up above the storm every time.)

                                                            Danna Shirley ~ 2024 (34 years later)

HUMILITY and EGO

by Susan Peabody, Richmond, CA (2023)

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

The ego is our sense of self—our consciousness. It is also referred to as self-awareness, or self-will. An inflated ego is too much ego. It is also called self-centeredness or egocentricity. A deflated ego is too little ego. It is also referred to as low self-esteem or a poor sense of self. People who have survived a difficult childhood usually have one or the other—or vacillate between the two.

Humility means two things. For God-conscious people it means that God is everything and we are simply his children—we are perfectly imperfect. In other words, we do not compete with God. In psychological circles humility means that we do not have an inflated or deflated ego. We are not more important than other human beings, nor are we less than. We have found that middle ground.

From humility we have both a sense of God and an appropriate sense of self. It is a gift from God. From our humility we can hear God’s voice and all the guidance we need in life.

Ego can only produce happiness. From humility, we have the opportunity to find joy, peace, and serenity, as well as our God-given creativity.

My personal journey is as follows:
 I suffered and was ashamed.
 I was blind.
 I was lost.
 I found God.
 I found my healthy ego.
 I found humility.
 I found my creativity.
 I found serenity.
 I found peace.
 I found happiness.
 I found joy.
 I found Jesus.
 From Jesus I found salvation and forgiveness.
 From all of these gifts I found strength and guidance.
 I found my life’s purpose.
 I found true love.
 I found my way.
 I found my calling in the Catholic faith.
 What new strength will I find there to benefit others?
 And then after that . . . ?

We are all part human and part divine, although many of us never find our divine part. This is sad because everything worth living for is divine. The ego happiness only lasts a short while. The gifts that come from humility are eternal.

In summary, finding humility is like finding directions to water in a desert. Attaining humility is a miracle and blessing from God. Make this your goal and everything in your life will have meaning beyond belief.

Happy Holidays

Krismasi Njema

Susan Peabody

HISTORY and SIGNIFICANCE of THANKSGIVING

For a reminder of the history and significance of Thanksgiving, I hope you will read this interview with Dr. Stephen McDowell, president of Providence Foundation and prolific author, who reminds us of the true story of the Pilgrims and the first Thanksgiving.

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The Stand: What is the greatest threat today to the truth about the Pilgrims and their history?
McDowell: While some books and educators directly lie about the Pilgrims and their primary Christian motive for starting a new colony in America, the greatest threat to the truth about their story is what is left out when their story is told.
     Revisionist history gives a false picture of these devoted Christians. For example, one elementary public school textbook gives 30 pages to present the story of the Pilgrims without once [making] any reference to religion; thus at the end of [the Pilgrims’] first year, they “wanted to give thanks for all they had.” But there is no mention it was God they were thanking.
     Teaching about the Pilgrims without referencing God causes people to think that Christianity was not important to them. Revisionist history is a primary reason for the secularization of America. People are taught our history without mentioning Christianity, or if it is cited, it is often presented in a negative light, when in reality it is the most important influence in the birth, growth, and development of the nation.

The Stand: Why do some contemporary educators revise U.S. history, particularly the story of Thanksgiving?
McDowell: Most teachers in our schools today are ignorant of the true story of Thanksgiving and the Pilgrims. They never learned it in school and few search out primary source documents so as to get to know the Pilgrims via their own writings.
     William Bradford, governor of the Pilgrims for 33 years, wrote their history -- Of Plimoth Plantation -- which is one of the great historical and literary works of all American history, but few teachers have even heard of it, much less read it. You only need to read a few pages to see the sincere and deep faith of these men and women who served as "stepping stones" for those who would follow. 
     Some educators who know the history yet ignore it, evaluate the Pilgrims through their own secular bias – that is, the Pilgrims may have had a deep faith, but God is a construction of the human mind and consequently is not relevant, so they do not need to mention God when recounting their story. Or they have such a dislike for God that they do not want to give Him any place in history.

The Stand: Why is it important that we remember and pass on the truth about the Pilgrims?
McDowell: The Pilgrims’ story teaches us many lessons. We learn of the great sacrifice they paid to exercise their freedom of religion and to plant the early seeds of our nation. Half of them died the first winter after arriving at Plymouth, and most of the others suffered from sickness and hunger. At one time, only six or seven could get out of bed, but they toiled night and day to assist their brethren.
     In the words of Bradford they “fetched them wood, made them fires, dressed their meat, made their beds, washed their loathsome clothes, clothed and unclothed them. In a word, they did all the homely and necessary offices for them which queasy stomachs cannot endure to hear named – and this willingly and cheerfully, without any grudging in the least.” Their care for one another reveals their Christian character and practical love, “a rare example and worthy to be remembered.”
     Their motive to spread the gospel is evident from Bradford’s words (which are inscribed on his monument in Plymouth): “A great hope and inward zeal they had of laying some good foundation, or at least to make some way thereunto, for the propagating and advancing of the Gospel of the Kingdom of Christ in those remote parts of the world.”
     The Mayflower Compact, a document the Pilgrims drafted and signed before going ashore, shows their ability to reason biblically regarding civil affairs: “Having undertaken for the glory of God and advancement of the Christian faith … [we] do by these presents solemnly and mutually in the presence of God, and one of another, covenant and combine ourselves together into a civil body politic.”
     Learning the unique covenant nature of our founding political documents is an important lesson in understanding why America was founded as the freest nation in history.

The Stand: What is the most important aspect of the Thanksgiving story that parents can teach their children?
McDowell: The most important thing parents can teach their children about the Thanksgiving story is the most obvious: We call it Thanksgiving for a reason. Our Pilgrim forefathers, who are reflective of most of the founders of America, were firmly devoted to Almighty God and His Son Jesus Christ. In recognition of His gracious hand upon them, they set aside regular public days to give thanks and glorify Him.
     This was not done merely once or twice but regularly throughout their entire lifetime. They set an example that was followed by those who came after them, even up until today. Throughout most of our history, Americans understood thanksgiving days were to thank God. The Pilgrims’ love and devotion to God, and their reliance upon Him in abundance and lack, are evidenced not only by their private lives but also by their public days of thanksgiving.
     This Thanksgiving, I hope you will keep the real Thanksgiving story alive in your children and grandchildren. I also hope that you will join me and my family as we follow the example of our Pilgrim forefathers in making it a special day of praise to God.